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bound⋅a⋅ry

(boun'də-rē, -drē)

1. something that indicates bounds or limits; a limiting or bounding line.



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i am getting better about setting them........................................



but it's still hard.//////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////

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particularly when it means someone else important is being hurt/disappointed/whathaveyou at the expense of my own safety and self care. i know i have left myself stranded in terrible relationships {of various shapes and sizes} because i haven't had the courage to speak the words that define where i end and you begin. or even simply lacking the guts to say this isn't a failure on either of our parts, but goodbye.



and conversely, i have regretted the loss of other relationships that i could have kept had i just spoken. up. sooner...............................................................................................................................



another definition which has interesting implications for relationships:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::



2. also called frontier. mathematics. the collection of all points of a given set having the property that every neighborhood of each point contains points in the set and in the complement of the set.


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